Hi Marie
You're sounding totally frazzled. I whinge a lot but Bob really isn't too bad - doesn't remember anything unless it's something I've done wrong; then he nags for days.
But a really solid hissyfit works wonders. Poor boy sits and looks at me like a wounded rabbit; apologises profusely and leaves me feeling bad.
If you can manage some respit care, come to Melbourne. We'll get together with Sapphyre and have some retail therapy.
Wishing you peace and strength.
Lynne